There is the common advice we give people, especially when they are going through difficult times with their career or relationship, we tell them to do whatever makes them happy….
Author: John Asiegbu
John Asiegbu is recognized as Africa's Leading Emotional Intelligence Expert, working with individuals, families, and organizations to maximize and achieve their goals leveraging the power of emotional intelligence.
He graduated as a Real Estate Professional from the Federal University of Technology Akure, Ondo State, Nigeria. John is also an alumnus of the Eastern Mediterranean University, Cyprus where he graduated with an MBA in Organizational Behavior, with a thesis on Analysis of the Components of Emotional Intelligence. A PMI and CompTIA certified Project Management Professional, with a passion for project leadership, entrepreneurship, and talent management.
He is presently Lead Consultant at Evlos Consulting; a company that helps organizations to achieve strategic goals through consulting and training in Emotional Intelligence, Customer Relationship, Effective Communication, Productivity, Leadership, Team Bonding, Sales, and Project Management. He is also a Certified Therapist, Coach, and Counselor, majoring in Public Speaking, Stress, Depression, and Anger Management.
As a Public Speaker, John has reached over 1,000,000 people in his quest to help individuals and business organizations to maximize potential and reach peak performance. He is an author of three books.
5 Ways to Make Your Emotions Work for You
Every feeling begins with an external stimulus, whether it’s what someone said or a physical event. That stimulus generates an unfelt emotion in the brain, which causes the body to…

Service Above Self
As humans, our default tendency is to put ourselves first over anyone or anything else. We mostly consider helping others only when are done taking care of our own needs…