Harvey is an emotional intelligence expert, speaker, trainer and internationally published author of THE OTHER KIND OF SMART, Simple Ways to Boost Your Emotional Intelligence for Greater Personal Effectiveness and Success. He also writes for FAST COMPANY and has a monthly column with HR PROFESSIONALS MAGAZINE. Harvey is a TEDx Speaker with TEDx Beacon Street, […]
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Last year, in honor of World Mental Health Day, a group of dedicated coaches wrote the book Courage: Coaches & Entrepreneurs Share Their Stories of Struggle and Their Strategies for Success, to share learning and wisdom from the challenges that impacted their mental well-being and lives. The authors provide tools and resources to help those
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Beyond Reason: Exploring the Power of the Heart in a World Dominated by Intellect Beyond Reason: Exploring the Power of the Heart in a World Dominated by Intellect In our fast-paced, technology-driven society, it often feels as if we’re living in the head—not the heart. Picture this: a bustling city street, where people scurry by,
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Feeling overwhelmed and stressed? You’re not alone. In a world that never seems to slow down, stress has become an unwelcome companion, lurking behind every deadline, balancing act, and life challenge. Whether it’s the demands of a fast-paced job, the complexities of personal relationships, or the weight of financial burdens, stress can take a toll
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Hi. Thank you for your interest in “Emotional Management” workshop. You come to the right place. Your Goal: Peace. Starting with Inner peace. Peace inside you. (Very simple. Not so easy.) My Goal: Take you into, and through, your feelings and emotions, so you can create Peace, inside and around you, from this day forward.
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Global Peace Retreat & Conclave!1-4 March 2024 Applications now open! Immerse yourself in Nepal’s beauty and cultural richness from March 1-4, 2024. Date: March 1-4, 2024 Location: Dhulikhel Village Resort, Nepal Four days of peace-focused activities Cultivate a global network and become an ambassador of peace. Delegate Benefits: Enhanced Mental Resilience Global
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People often struggle to change the way they think, feel, say and do things, even when they really would like to, and have suffered serious professional, relational, health and economic consequences for the way they do.
Behavior is always purposeful. People start and continue to do things because it serves a purpose in their lives. Ideally, everything we think, feel, say or do would help us get closer to getting what we really want and need, and make it more likely we’d end up with the kind of life we really
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UNESCO Endorsement Letter(English and Nepali) UNESCO Representative, Axel PlatheCo-teaching LWA Teacher TrainingJuly 19, 2019 Lumbini Buddhist University Endorsement Letter(English and Nepali) Nepal Social Welface Council (SWC) Approvalto use funds to present LWAEEP in schools(English and Nepali) LWAEEP Testimonials“After I received training on Life Without Anger, I started having good relationships with my family and
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Irrational means thinking, feeling, saying or doing something that makes your life, and perhaps the lives of others worse instead of better. Rational means thinking, feeling, saying or doing something that makes the best of bad situations, that makes your life and the lives of others better. Ideally, everything we think, feel, say or do
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Dr. Paul Hauck, an REBT therapist from Davenport, Iowa, USA said that whenever you find yourself in a situation you don’t like, you have four basic options: Problem solve and assert yourself Tolerate with disturbance (get upset) Tolerate without disturbance (don’t get upset) Leave There are two basic types of messages you can use with
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Building Peace from the Inside Out! Join EQ4Peace’s Fall Emotional Education Campaign Teaching children how to manage their inner world, so they can create Peace inside and around themselves. People, especially kids, all over the world are struggling, emotionally. We are afraid and becoming more and more fearful. Fear often turns to anger. EQ4Peace teaches
Bio for Dess Mardan Basnet, PhD Tarakeshwor Municipality- 6 Dharmasthali, Kathmandu, Nepal GPO Box No.13708 Phone No: 977-1- 977-1-4435779/4434320 Mobile No: 977-9841429361/9801042930 E-mails: dmbasnet@worldwithoutagner.org | dessmardanbasnet@gmail.com ORCID id (Researcher Digital Identifier): https://orcid.org/0000-0001-8471-8228 Bio Dess Mardan Basnet, PhD was born in Tarakeshwor Municipality-6, Dharmasthali, Kathmandu, Nepal in 1975. He received a Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) from Pacific Academy
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COGNITIVE AFFECTIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY (#CABT) EVENT – MEANING – FEELING – BEHAVIOR CONTINUUM (#EMFB) CABT is based on Event –> Meaning –> Feelings –> Behavior (EMFB). The way you think determines the meanings you put to situations; the meanings then determine your feelings, and from your feelings, you then choose your behaviors. You were a
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Positive Mental Health Tool Kit: 11 Mental and Emotional Power Tools The concepts, language, and skills to build a positive, successful, emotionally-intelligent life. by Ray Mathis, Mental Health Educator Intro Watch/listen: https://www.facebook.com/ray.mathis.56/videos/438550932166428 (31:55) Tool 1 – Understanding and appreciating the important role of emotions in everyday life. #PMHStep1_Awareness Read: https://eq4peace.org/pmhtool1 Watch/listen: https://www.facebook.com/ray.mathis.56/videos/931299942331356 (20:51) Tool 2
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In math classes, we are taught that if we approach each new problem in the same step-by-step fashion, we are more likely to arrive at the correct answer to the problem. The same is true when approaching problems in everyday life. People must be in the right mental and emotional place to function at the
B stands for Belief, D for Dispute, and A for Answer DEMANDINGNESS Demands in the form of questions B HOW DARE they say that about me? A EASILY! B HOW COULD they say something like that? A EASILY! Demands of others B They HAVE TO (SHOULD, NEED TO) do what I tell
A picture is worth a thousand words. The Think-Feel-Do Thermostat Model is a simple but effective visual to help people see: Where they are emotionally and behaviorally at any given moment The cognitive (thought) reasons they are where they are Where they might want to be emotionally and behaviorally instead What it will take cognitively
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THOUGHTS cause FEELINGS, not EVENTS. For that reason, it’s important to recognize when you and others think irrationally. Irrational means in ways that cause you to feel worse than is necessary or helpful, and to say or do things that make your life and the lives of others worse instead of better. Dr. Albert Ellis
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Locus of control means where we see our feelings as coming from, what we see as the cause of them. Most people have an external (outer) locus of control They wrongly see what others say or do, and what happens (the events of their lives) as the cause of how they feel You need only
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Unconditional Self-Acceptance means choosing to see whatever we think, feel, say or do, have in the past or might in the future as being part of being human, and understandable given what our life experiences have been, which may have been much different than others. The reason choosing to have USA is important is the
